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Sharing it Forward

· Fun Facts About Me ·

February 4, 2018 37 Comments

Have you noticed the pay-it-forward-like movement of nominating your friends to share fun-facts about themselves on their social media pages/stories and afterwards they nominate more friends to do the same?  I’ve been nominated to share but more about that in a bit…

Firstly, I wanted to share some insights on why this fun-fact sharing seems to have gone viral on social media.

1. An opportunity to share what you normally would not share.

For many people including myself, we find it difficult to talk about ourselves, at least not in the way of disclosing details that seem irrelevant to anyone’s interest.  We think only significant details are relevant like some milestone, achievement or accomplishment (ie. graduation, marriage, childbirth, career move), but not so much the little things.  However there’s a hidden beauty behind recalling the little things that make us smile and chuckle (and maybe even cringe a bit), therefore generally bringing us nostalgic joy in some way even if small.

2. Social Media and it’s limitations of getting to know the real you.

We all know too well how social media can pressure us to only depict certain sides or angles for fear of lack of interest or acceptance.  The pressures and expectations of social media is a bigger topic for another time but for now it is another reason why I think the fun-fact sharing was so well received.  It’s a challenge and opportunity that says, “hey, we want to know more about you, the real you, not just what you look like or say on social media”.

So here goes for me,  sharing a few facts in hopes you get to know me a bit better:

1. I am the youngest of 4 and the only Canadian-born daughter.

2. I can speak Cantonese.

3. I won the Athlete of the Year award when I was in grade 6.

4. I am deathly allergic to cats and horses.

5. I won a speed typing contest in high school.

6. I can sight-read music and play the piano.

7. I have a Degree in Business and majored in Accounting.

8. I am married to my high school sweetheart.

9. I watched the movie Titantic 10 times in theatres.

10. My best girlfriend is my 16 year old daughter.

If you haven’t already, I encourage you to also share-it-forward!  The more we can encourage real-ness to come out the better.  Afterall, it’s not often we feel comfortable surfacing from the social media boundaries and judgements so when we can, let’s go for it!


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I recently picked up this wrap/poncho from Urban Outfitters.  It’s super versatile and easy to style.  Throw on over any outfit for an extra layer to stay cozy!

 

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37 Comments

  1. Reply

    April Kitchens

    February 5, 2018

    The poncho is cute, I can see myself wearing it running errands or spending time with my daughter. Casual but still cute.

  2. Reply

    Harmony, Momma To Go

    February 5, 2018

    I love these types of posts! I love that your daughter is your best friend! So sweet!

  3. Reply

    Ayanna @ 21FlavorsofSplendor

    February 5, 2018

    I love reading posts like this because like you said social media can definitely limit a lot.

  4. Reply

    Annette

    February 6, 2018

    Great post. So amazing that you have a spacial bond with your daughter. Thank you for sharing.

  5. Reply

    Larissa

    February 6, 2018

    I also love posts like this! It’s so refreshing to get to know the people behind the blogs, or behind the social media accounts. And it’s incredible to read through the comments and see how many other people are able to connect with you when you do take the time to share personal information about yourself! I’m also allergic to cats and horses, although not deathly. And I used to be able to play the piano, and I want to re-teach myself [or take lessons] to learn again!

  6. Reply

    Marilyn

    February 6, 2018

    So refreshing to read and cute outfit! How cool that you can speak Cantonese, I´m currently learning Chinese and is so challenging!

  7. Reply

    courtney byers

    February 6, 2018

    Aw I loved learning more about you! Titanic was one of my favorite movies growing up.

  8. Reply

    Rachel

    February 6, 2018

    Ten times in theaters!? Dang, girl! That’s a LOT Of time ! PS. I saw it three 😉 LOL

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      Sandy

      February 6, 2018

      haha yes! I was in love with Leo C in that movie! I couldn’t get enough at the time. But I probably won’t watch it ever again now! lol

  9. Reply

    suzanne

    February 7, 2018

    How awesome that you married your highschool sweetheart! So cute.

  10. Reply

    Karyl | Karyl's Kulinary Krusade'

    February 7, 2018

    I love that wrap! They are so comfortable and versatile, and perfect for cold weather.

  11. Reply

    Lynette

    February 7, 2018

    This is such a great idea! I love the movie Titanic too!

  12. Reply

    Susannah

    February 7, 2018

    You speak Cantonese? That’s so cool! Loved learning more about you!

  13. Reply

    Amanda Martin

    February 7, 2018

    Loved reading this and have loved watching blogger’s stories about it, as well! I did a “28 things about me” post for my 28th birthday last month and had so much fun. Thinking of that many facts was challenging!
    http://www.AmandasOK.com

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    Alexandra

    February 7, 2018

    We all pick our own parenting style. But your #10 reminded me of when my daughter was 16 and asked me if I was her friend. I told her, “No, I’m not your friend. Friends can come and go. I’m something better – you’re Momma – and I will always watch out for you.” She’s going to be 30 next month and every once in a while she’ll ask me with a wink “Mom, are we friends now?” We are.

  15. Reply

    Jessica Bradshaw

    February 7, 2018

    What a great idea! Love your facts. That outfit was made for you, girl! So cute. That looks so cozy.

  16. Reply

    Heather @ US Japan Fam

    February 8, 2018

    This is such a fun idea, thanks for the inspiration!! I’m going to try it on my blog/social!!

  17. Reply

    Stephanie

    February 8, 2018

    You have so many unique qualities and attributes!! Yay for athlete of the year in 6th grade! Haha! I am also wishing I could speak another language. That’s so cool!

  18. Reply

    Jessica

    February 8, 2018

    Great learning more about you! I’m half Chinese and my dad’s family speaks Cantonese. I wish I had learned when I was a child how to speak it myself!

  19. Reply

    Britta

    February 9, 2018

    Yes!
    I have been a part of them too!
    It is so lovely to get to know people for more than their IG feed right? 🙂
    How sweet that you married your highschool sweatheart!
    So great when you find that special someone so early in life.
    Thank you for letting us know you a bit better!
    Xo
    Britta

  20. Reply

    Latasha

    February 9, 2018

    Pay it forward are fun! 🙂 Oh! I love your outfit by the way. The purse is just darling. 🙂

  21. Reply

    Tanvi

    February 9, 2018

    I loved learning more about you. It is great to open up. I also like your outfit.

    ❥ tanvii.com

  22. Reply

    Aliya

    February 9, 2018

    I’m really liking these Share it Forward posts. It’s nice to know the real Sandy. Thanks for sharing. Loving your outfit too!

    Xo
    http://www.stylebyaliya.com

  23. Reply

    Helen

    February 11, 2018

    I actually love reading these posts where bloggers share fun facts about themselves that they otherwise wouldn’t share on social media! It really gives everyone an insight into their personality and I love that you’ve watched Titanic so many times!! Do you cry each time you watch it? I’m one of those suckers who does even though I know exactly what’s going to happen!!

  24. Reply

    Vanessa Berlin

    February 11, 2018

    I love your outfit head to toe, your poncho adds a nice and chic touch to it. I totally relate to you, because my daughter is also my best friend. Thanks for sharing such a personal post, I loved to know more about you. And by the way, Titanic is one of my favorite movies by far.
    Have a wonderful Valentines day.
    Vanessa

    https://thefashionstatement.net

  25. Reply

    Aimara

    February 12, 2018

    Love this comfy look girl! It’s so chic and easy to recreate 🙂
    Also, couldn’t agree more about SM! Thanks for sharing these fun facts about you!!
    They are so unique and I loved them!!
    Have the best week!
    xo
    Aimara
    http://www.waysofstyle.com

  26. Reply

    Sheree

    February 12, 2018

    Every piece of your outfit is too cute! Loved reading all fun facts about you! You sound like such a wonderful person!

    xo Sheree
    PoshClassyMom.com

  27. Reply

    Gina Diaz

    February 12, 2018

    I love your outfit! you look so stylish. This is an amazing post and great to know more things about you! thank you for sharing. Titanic is among my favorite movies, I owned a copy and I watch it at home everytime I can and feel inspired.

    xx. Gina

  28. Reply

    Darya

    February 13, 2018

    Hi dear,

    Thank you for sharing some personal facts with us. I’m so inspired reading points 2,6, and 7! You are so talented!
    Can’t wait to know more info about you:)

    xoxo
    Darya

  29. Reply

    Jacque

    February 13, 2018

    Aw this is such a lovely post. I think social media is a great tool but like you said you only show “certain parts” of yourself. These are all things I didn’t know about you and I think that’s amazing. PS I’m deathly allergic to cats too. I’m not sure about horses but definitely yes on the cats. Love your look too

  30. Reply

    Tandya

    February 13, 2018

    I love all the pay it forward tags I am seeing on Instagram! Thank you for sharing these fun facts! I was also sports woman of the year, from 6th to 8th grade. That is cool that you are the first Canadian born sibling. Where were your relatives born?

    Thanks for sharing!
    XO
    Tandya
    http://www.simplytandya.com

  31. Reply

    Open Kloset

    February 14, 2018

    Hey Darling,
    Hoe are you?
    Sooo Happy to know more about you:)
    I think its very important to share our Personality and some important infos too:) I love this way for sure 🙂
    Can’t wait to read more and more about you:)
    Love Kisses
    Happy Week
    Karina

  32. Reply

    ting

    February 14, 2018

    How cool to have your youngest daughter as your best friend! You definitely one of the coolest moms. Thanks for sharing these fun factors about you and I lived in Hong Kong for 3 years still can’t speak Cantonese. I love this poncho on you. It’s a timeless piece.

    Xx

    Ting
    https://www.tingmystyle.com

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      Sandy

      February 15, 2018

      Aww thanks! My daughter is quite mature and independent for her age so our relationship has become more of a friendship than authoritative parenting! Lol

  33. Reply

    Eva

    February 15, 2018

    Such a positive things about you., so many good vibes. Piano, cantonese, yoir 16 years girl, your first love. Everything !
    Xx
    Eva
    http://www.themermaidfashion.com

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      Sandy

      February 15, 2018

      Thanks Eva – they are little things I sometimes take for granted and forget about lol

  34. Reply

    Leigh Suznovich

    February 15, 2018

    Love the outfit and loved learning those interesting facts about you! Great post.

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